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Saturday, April 23, 2011

Give Our Friend a Second Chance

Shoes: H&M (similar) / Skirt: Zara (similar) / Blouse: H&M (similar) / Watch: Michael Kors

Another sunny and windy day here in Norway. That sentence actually rhymed. But that is not the topic. There is something I find very disturbing about the childish act of some certain people. I don't get it. Ok, so a person kept some private stuff hidden from the friend crew and did not share every single part of his/her life, and all the sudden there is this big trial going on about how awful it is to keep secrets. Wait a minute, since when did it become illegal to have secrets to yourself? Let us see, having secrets to yourself doesn't hurt anyone nor is it damaging to anything what so ever. The secrets only involve you and your life, so why should anyone know, unless you want to share of course. Certain people have an urge to dig into other peoples privacy. We say that we grow up, but do we really do that? 

Although we say that we give our friend a second chance, and believe our friend is being honest, we really don't. Because no one can ever change, no one deserves a break, no one can ever make mistakes. Right? We only get one shot and if we mess up, then the only thing left to do is to wait for our lives to end. Forget about the spirit of "Never letting go". Then there is the constant mistrust. If a person has hidden something before and "lied", and by lied I mean kept a thing to themselves, then they are most likely to do that again. So, no matter what happens, NEVER trust nor talk to that person again, ok?

Ok, I'm happy we talked. Now, back to the weather..

47 comments:

  1. cute outfit..you look awesome!

    http://starlightsworld.blogspot.com/

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  2. your outfit is so lady-like. Classy, I love it... & yes, I do agree with you: keeping a secret to yourself is not illegal, it's called protecting your privacy. Xo

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  3. Thanks for your comment on my blog (:

    Lovely outfit, and I agree with you: Sometimes it's better to keep things to yourself, and no one should judge you by that.

    With love, Kirsten

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  4. great outfit ♥
    love the skirt :)

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  5. This is such a cute outfit, you always look stunning :)

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  6. Takk for din kommentar.
    I have family in Norway ... nice to meet you !
    In your pictures you look very natural and sweet,i love your outfit :)
    kiss darlin !
    my blog- follow me ... also i follow you !
    http://modefemme.blogspot.com/

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  7. awesome the skirt with blouse :)
    you look really great :)

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  8. Great outfit, you have beautiful eyes!

    http://themessenger-bag.blogspot.com

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  9. ow thank for comment in my blog...love this blog...amazing...and your looks very cool!!
    LOVE NORUEGA!!

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  10. hey, that's one lovely outfit :)
    http://urbanprettygirl.blogspot.com/

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  11. I love your outfit, the top is super cute and I like that you paired it with the red skirt! I agree with you, you're definitely allowed to keep secrets about yourself.

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  12. very nice blog, lovely photos

    www.moscowlana.blogspot.com

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  13. Lovelye cuties outfit! Love the polka dot top in combiination with red.
    Secrets... Do you know a song that has a song od The Pierces that says:"Got a secret
    Can you keep it?
    Swear this one you'll save
    Better lock it, in your pocket
    Taking this one to the grave
    If I show you then I know you
    Won't tell what I said
    Cause two can keep a secret
    If one of the m is dead…" and so on.
    Happy Easter!
    xo

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  14. I always give a second chance but sometimes a bit too many! But I can't give a second chance to boring company :P That's more brutal than disloyalty ... haha

    You look super cute!!!

    ♡ from © tanvii.com

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  15. Great outfit! I usually think the same way as you do, but only when I'm angry cause I always end up giving second chances!

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  16. You look beautiful !!! Lots of kisses ;*;*;*

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  17. Cute outfit, love the red skirt. xoxo

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  18. thank you for the comment! & I really like your outfit.
    I would like to have a red skirt like that in my wardrobe.

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  19. heeey! thanks for your comment! hadn't really come across your blog yet but i'm so glad I did now! loving it! love the red shirt (did you see the post I put on my blog where I was wearing myself a red skirt i designed? =))

    anyways this is getting too long. maybe we wanna follow each other? =)

    youfancypants.blogspot.com

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  20. You're so cute! I'm a new follower =]
    nicoleinthemaking.blogspot.com

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  21. New follower here as well -- thanks for stopping by my blog and leaving a kind comment earlier. :o)

    I love this outfit! It makes me think of a retro pinup girl. I can't believe you're in Norway and wearing sleeveless shirts; I'm here in the northeastern US and it snowed this morning!

    -Renée
    namasterenee.blogspot.com

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  22. I just adore your outfit! The cute polka dot tube with the red skirt :)
    xo Lynzy
    http://sparklingfootsteps.blogspot.com

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  23. your blog is adorable and so are you!

    xoxo
    carrie&kristen
    thefashiondyad.com

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  24. SO cute! I can never get the high-waisted skirts to look right on me, but you wear it beautifully! Great pairing with the blue and white polka dot top... you look so Parisian chic :)

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  25. Thank you for visiting my Blog.
    Lov the look, specially the skirt.
    Followong you!
    When we say "I'll give you a second change" is that really true? Can you heartily trust this person again?
    lov you comenmake us think.
    xoxo

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  26. Thanks for the comment. I really love your blog and title, so clever! do you live in Norway? Awesome outfits!!
    new follower :)

    xo
    Maddie

    www.missstilley.com

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  27. Thanks for visiting my blog! Hope you stop by soon again!
    You look lovely, really like your outfit!

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  28. Sorry girl, sounds like a hard time. I find that sometimes letting go of some people is OK. We expect to need to be great friends with everyone, and I believe it's true that you can be courteous to all people...but it can be an enormous relief to cut some people out. And there is nothing wrong with that -- because there are too many amazing people in the world to be friends with and we have such a limited amount of time. Hopefully everything works out for you -- it will. And, of course, you look stunning!

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  29. Thanks for your comment on my blog!!!!This outfit is SUPER!!!!The skirt is very beautiful!!!Kisses

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  30. Red looks so elegant! Beautiful

    www.asydneygirl.blogspot.com

    x

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  31. We should be able to keep any part of ourselves private if we choose to. Now if its a secret then how do we know someone is hiding one from us unless they say, "I have a secret and I'm not telling you about it" I ended a relationship with a gal that was toxic and dishonest. Life is too short to have people in your life that you can not trust or feel confident about yourself!

    Thanks for stopping by my blog!

    You are gorgeous! Love the outfit and your confidence!

    Megan

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  32. this is such an effortless and classy look.
    love the 60's hint.
    xx


    themerrimari.blogspot.com

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  33. this is such an effortless and classy look.
    love the 60's hint.
    xx


    themerrimari.blogspot.com

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  34. lovee this outfit!!
    - Gaby
    fromragstoglam.blogspot.com

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  35. Greath photos, and you are beautiful! shell we follow each other?

    http://fashiondisorderbymms.blogspot.com/

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  36. Cute outfit!!!

    http://kmbro.blogspot.com

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  37. you are lovely!

    www.playgroundlovevintage.blogspot.com

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  38. I think that there is a difference in lying and keeping a secret. The main thing to remember is that trust once lost is hard to regain. So I guess it's better to be honest on the big issues, even if it means telling the other party that you want to keep certain business private. I hope everyone has that freedom. Lies can hurt especially the ones we love.

    Www.nikkbsnotes.blogspot.com

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  39. Your eyebrows are such a statement! Love it!
    I like the style of your blog too :)


    Smiles,
    Aina

    THE DUSTY LOFT

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  40. I love this outfit and completely agree with what you posted. Not all secrets are meant to be shared!

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  41. stunning!u look amazing, love the colors!
    xx

    http://shavil.blogspot.com/

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  42. Happy bday! All the best! What did you do for it? Btw love how you wear colour
    xx

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  43. such a great outfit! love the polka dotted top with the red pencil skirt! beauuutiful. <3 EverRubyGirl.blogspot.com

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