The 1st photos of us together. 2008.
Everyone is curious about the actual story behind our relationship. How could two so different people, from different sides of the world find each other? I'm going to explain everything to the very last bit. Might get long, just saying.
It all started way before I ever knew him. We had one mutual friend together. I used to publish videos of me playing the guitar and singing cover songs on the internet way back in the time. One day, Fiancé had found me when he was browsing through his friend's contact list. Apparently he had been watching my videos for almost six months before he dared to get in touch with me. Creepy right? I had no idea.
The summer of 2008 changed my life forever, our lives. One very special night, when this lovely guy came up to me and introduced himself. We sat down and talked until the sun came up. That was when he told me that he had been stalking me and that he found me cute and all that jazz.
The two of us are indeed very different. He is outgoing and I'm the shy girl. He is hyperactive and I'm the calmest person in the planet, even I think it's irritating sometimes. He lives in Istanbul and I live in Oslo. The culture and the background is different. Our lives are different. He has experienced everything a teenage guy can, while I'm just starting to expand my limits. We are black and white, plus and minus.
But somehow this beautiful person won my heart over. He became my first boyfriend, my first Love, my Fiancé and soon to become the husband. It sounds bizarre. All of my "first's" became true with this lucky guy and I feel blessed to know him and have him in my life. Every relationship has it's ups and downs, this is just normal. The most important thing is to get through the down times and just be happy together. Value and cherish each other. Most importantly RESPECT the relationship and each other. Our relationship has been a long distance relationship ever since day one. Waiting for the day when he get's his permits and can come to me so that we can truly start our journey together.
This was long. I fully understand if you only looked at the photographs and smiled.
I miss him.